I just wonder genuinely when people are gonna start thinking for themselves and stop being sheep.
You NEED experiences to grow. Good and bad. You need to go through life and make your OWN choices and do what’s best for YOU! Not everyone around you. You need to make YOU happy. If you let people make every single decision for you and let every single person dictate how you live your life? Then you’ll regret it later on for not listening to yourself and your own heart.
You’ll live in this confined box. This safe, dark ‘haven’, yes. But, NOTHING grows in that ‘comfort zone’ without sunshine AND rain. You’ll be 40 years old wondering why you’re so miserable for not taking chances and living the life you want to live…
If you are in a difficult relationship and you want to make peace with the other person, you have to go home to yourself first. You have to go home to your garden and cultivate the flowers of peace, compassion, gratitude, understanding, and joy. Only then can you come to the other person and offer patience, acceptance, understanding, and compassion.